Typically, negative people likes living in their "own world" and refuses to get out of it for fear of _____________(fill in the blanks to whatever 'scary' things). No matter what others say to encourage positive ions, we tend to choose not to believe in it. Because we believe that the solutions would not work out. Nobody is able to help. We choose to push ourselves to the black hole. In Chinese, it's called "自甘堕落" and it means one choose to make themselves worse.
In reality, it's Avoidance. Whenever there are problems, we avoid to do it.
And I understand why people choose to commit suicide. It's because they cannot get themselves out of the negative thoughts. After a period of time, it develops into depression. They struggled and those who gave up are people who had lost the will or determination to live on.
This reminded me of the bride who threw herself down because she cannot get out of her grievence of her husband who died on the day they got married. Gwaahhhh~ What a sad case. At least...... she is 'free' from her grievence-suffering...
Sometimes I really admire people working in the counselling industry. How can they have so much patience to counsel a person for YEARS? *salute*
Anyway, tonight's gonna be a good night. Holland VS Spain. Woo-hoo ~ ~
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